Heidi + Family Portraits
A few years ago I had the opportunity to photograph two sisters, Jenna + Erica, and their families. During our session, I noticed their strong sister bond. I couldn't put my finger on it... but there was something about them that was so in sync. When I suggested doing a combined whole family photo, they said that wasn't possible as Heidi, the youngest sister, and her family were out of the country.
After the shoot, I started following the sisters on Facebook and loved seeing the posts when all three of the sisters connected. To me, well, it was a work of art. I said to myself, "I have to photograph all three of them together one day." The way they supported each other felt out of this world - and I felt the relationship needed to be honored.
Four years ago, Heidi, the youngest, found out she had cancer. My heart lurched out when I read that. I walked along my sweet mum on her cancer journey. I don't know if you have figured it out yet... but cancer sucks. Watching the way the sisters would come together and cheer each other on - even to the point of Erica giving her kidney to Heidi - it was just beautiful (and heart wrenching). The highs and lows - I understood them.
2 weeks ago, Jenna made a Facebook post saying there were no more treatments for Heidi and they were bringing her home to die. I knew that time was short and realized I may never get to create portraits of them altogether - and that didn't feel right.
Though it was crazy (since we didn't know each other besides a photo session)... I messaged them offering to fly to Boston to photograph them - all they needed to do was pick a date and I'd make it happen. I simply knew that this was a unique bond that needed to be documented.
Well... they liked the idea and the rest is history.
I booked a flight and flew out last week Wednesday (July 20). Though this was my first time meeting Heidi - it didn't matter. We instantly connected. It was strange recognizing the feeling of being with someone who has death knocking on their door. The feelings that I felt while walking alongside my sweet mum six years ago came up and brought a peace that allowed me to just be present in the moments I was with them.
Despite Heidi and I not knowing each other very long - I'm thankful for the friendship that I got to experience with her - even if it was only a matter of hours.
Jenna, Erica, and Heidi thank you for bringing me into the fold for a while and feel a bit of your sisterhood. The bond you ladies share is truly inspiring.